Well it sure has been a while since Ive been on my blog, but im sure my mom has be keeping everyone updated. As of now I have NO idea what to do. I love Kevin, even though hes an ass.. but i started falling for Steven. I know he can support me better than kevin can but I just cant let him go. And I want the girls to have their parents together, that hurts me the most. I need some advice about what in the world I should do because I really dont know.
This is laurel =)
This is laurel =)
The girls with santa
Most recent picture of me and the girls laurel is on the left and jaeda is on the right (same with the santa pic)
5 comments:
Hey Jess,
Just quickly since I have to go to work, honestly, if you are happier with someone else, then be with that someone else. Two parents together doesn't mean that it will be a happy family. The girls will know later on that you two are unhappy, and all kids blame themselves. It's better to do whatever you need to do now while they are young. Just because you aren't together, doesn't mean they won't have their father. And the happiest family, are not necessarily the original mother and father. They are mixed.
Ryan (my boyfriends) family, are split up and have married other people, and they are all happier this way. IN the end, you gotta follow your heart.
Don't stay together just for the girls! Do what is going to make you happy. Follow your heart! If someone else is "the one" then don't deny yourself happiness.
The girls are beautiful! Love their Santa dresses!
Honey, please please do not get back together with Kevin just for the sake of keeping your family together, be with somebody because you love them and you want to spend the rest of your life with them. If you don't love Kevin you need to think about further down the track - will there be fighting, resentment toward each other, how will the girls react to this, can you be good relationship models for them?
Follow your heart sweetie.
I love the photos of the girls, they are absolutely beautiful.
I would give you the same advice the others have said. Don't stay with Kevin just b/c he is the girls father.
Look at it this way... do you want your girls to grow up and put up with someone treating them the way Kevin treats you???
If the answer is NO, then leave him and find someone who will treat you with respect!
I can tell you from experince, it doesn't work to be with someone just b/c you have kids with them. It is hard to have kids with someone and not be with them... but honestly, do you really want to put up with how Kevin has treated you for the rest of your life??
You and those precious girls deserve so much better.
Best of luck. it isn't an easy choice to make.
Love the pics! They are adorable!
I agree with everyone else, don't stay with him just because he is the girls father. You deserve to be happy and it is not looking like he is very good at that.
Love the pictures of the girls!!
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